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Uyire Song Lyrics – Shan Vincent de Paul and Yanchan

From Album Songs 2021 · 2021

Lyricist
Shan Vincent de Paul
Singers
Shan Vincent de Paul, Yanchan
Music directors
Shan Vincent de Paul, Yanchan
Movie name
Album Songs 2021
Movie release year
2021
Lyrics added on
26 Jul 2021

Lyrics & meaning

♫ Tanglish lyrics
↻ English translation
Uyirae unnai naan nambi vandhen
Uravae unnai naan yengi vaazhven
Uyirae unnai naan nambi vandhen
Uravae unnai naan yengi vaazhven
The hardest thing I ever had to tell my amma
Was that my marriage didn’t work
And she ain’t say a word
But I can tell by the silence on the other side of this phone
Her mind was on the family’s reputation
Cause us tamizh folks don’t get divorced
We just stick it out cause we fear the stigma
Stick it out cause we stuck it out
But I can’t raise no child in a house
With no love
And I can’t come to forgive myself
For the way I weighed you down and how
I led you down to the road
I knew I won’t come
Ya, even after everything we overcame
I think we both knew that this was the end of the
Pretending pretending
That we hadn’t fallen out of love forever ago
Tried to work it out a million times
But knowin’ million and one was inevitable
I pray that one day you finally find it inside
You to truly forgive me.. I know
Every decision I made in that summer
Will eat me alive till the end of my days
How can I ever regret it if we were
Just sacrifices for her to be born
Mimi couldn’t have a better mother
Never would I want it any different
I’m must hoping we can take it easy on each other
For the sake of raising her with love
Uyirae unnai naan nambi vandhen
Uravae unnai naan yengi vaazhven
Uyirae unnai naan nambi vandhen
Uravae unnai naan yengi vaazhven
My dear life, I came trusting in you,
My beloved, I will live longing for you.
My dear life, I came trusting in you,
My beloved, I will live longing for you.
The hardest thing I ever had to tell my mother
Was that my marriage didn’t work out,
And she didn’t say a single word.
But I could tell by the silence on the other end of the phone
Her mind was on the family’s reputation,
Because we Tamil people don’t get divorced.
We just stay together because we fear the social stigma,
Enduring it simply because we have always endured it.
But I cannot raise a child in a house
With no love.
And I cannot bring myself to forgive myself
For the way I weighed you down and how
I led you down a road
That I knew I wouldn't follow.
Yeah, even after everything we overcame,
I think we both knew that this was the end of
Pretending, pretending
That we hadn’t fallen out of love a long time ago.
We tried to work it out a million times,
Yet knowing a million and first attempt was inevitable.
I pray that one day you will find it inside
Your heart to truly forgive me... I know
Every decision I made during that summer
Will eat me alive until the end of my days.
Yet how can I ever regret it, if our struggles were
Just the sacrifice made for our daughter to be born?
Mimi could not have a better mother,
I would never want it any other way.
I only hope we can be gentle with each other,
For the sake of raising her with love.
My dear life, I came trusting in you,
My beloved, I will live longing for you.
My dear life, I came trusting in you,
My beloved, I will live longing for you.
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Beyond the translation

Overall song meaning

This deeply intimate and raw track explores the pain, guilt, and social pressure surrounding divorce in the South Asian and Tamil diaspora. The narrator shares the painful moment of confessing his failed marriage to his mother, addressing the deep-seated cultural stigma against divorce where couples are expected to stay together regardless of love.

Writing craft

Poetic devices

Anaphora / Refrain

Uyirae unnai naan nambi vandhen

The repetitive Tamil refrain 'Uyirae unnai naan nambi vandhen...' frames the track with emotional longing, contrasting the raw English narrative.

Epizeuxis

Pretending pretending

The immediate repetition of the word 'pretending' emphasizes the exhausting facade of keeping up a broken relationship.

Hyperbole

Tried to work it out a million times

Exaggeration ('million times') is used to express the endless efforts made to salvage the relationship.

Personification / Metaphor

Will eat me alive till the end of my days

Guilt is personified as a creature that will 'eat me alive', conveying intense psychological torment.

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Trivia

Shan Vincent de Paul is an Eelam Tamil-Canadian artist. This song addresses his real-life divorce and his daughter Mimi, boldly confronting the taboo of divorce in traditional Tamil society.

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