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Kalyana Thirukovil Deiveegame

From Oomai Kanavu Kandal · 1980

Lyricist
Kannadasan
Singers
S. P. Balasubrahmanyam, A. V. Ramanan
Music director
Shankar Ganesh
Movie name
Oomai Kanavu Kandal
Movie release year
1980
Lyrics added on
11 Jul 2022

Lyrics & meaning

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↻ English translation
Kalyaana thirukkolam dheiveegamae
Kaiyodu kai saerkkum manakkolamae
Thaanaaga thunai thedum ondru
Thaai thanthai manam pesum ondru
Naal seivathaa illai naam seivathaa
Naal seivathaa illai naam seivathaa
Pettravargal penn paarththu
Periyorkal naal kuriththu
Kalyaanam seithaal enna
Kangalai thoodhu vittu
Kadhal enum perai sollum
Kadhaigalaiyae ninaiththaalenna
Niraiverum kadhal endrum kavithai andro
Niraiverum kadhal endrum kavithai andro
Kalyaana thirukkolam dheiveegamae
Kaiyodu kai saerkkum manakkolamae
Thaanaaga thunai thedum ondru
Thaai thanthai manam pesum ondru
Kadhal sorkka pantham
Kadavul thantha sontham
Thaanae thedi kondaal
Sariththiram piranthuvidum
Uravilum sugam irukkum
Kalyaana thirukkolam dheiveegamae
Kaiyodu kai saerkkum manakkolamae
Thaanaaga thunai thedum ondru
Thaai thanthai manam pesum ondru
Sri raman seedhaiyaithaan thedi kondathillai
Palar seitha mudivallavaa
Kamban magan kadhalukku vambinilae mudintha kadhai
Avan seitha thavarallavaa
Thaai thanthai penn paarththaal thavaraathaiyyaa
Thaai thanthai penn paarththaal thavaraathaiyyaa
Kadhal paavam alla
Edhuvum paavam alla
Ellaam vaazha vaikkum
Iru manangal inaiyum
Endrum thirumanaththil mudiyum
Kalyaana thirukkolam dheiveegamae
Kaiyodu kai saerkkum manakkolamae
Thaanaaga thunai thedum ondru
Thaai thanthai manam pesum ondru…..
The sacred sight of a wedding is truly divine,
The wedding ritual that joins hand in hand.
One seeks a companion of its own accord,
The other is a match arranged by parents...
Is it decided by auspicious dates, or made by ourselves?
Is it decided by auspicious dates, or made by ourselves?
When parents choose a bride,
And elders fix the wedding day,
What is wrong with marrying that way?
Sending glances as messengers,
And speaking in the name of love,
What is wrong with dreaming of such stories?
Isn't a love fulfilled always a poem?
Isn't a love fulfilled always a poem?
The sacred sight of a wedding is truly divine,
The wedding ritual that joins hand in hand.
One seeks a companion of its own accord,
The other is a match arranged by parents...
Love is a bond made in heaven,
A relationship gifted by God.
If one chooses love on their own,
History will surely be made.
There is joy in family bonds as well.
The sacred sight of a wedding is truly divine,
The wedding ritual that joins hand in hand.
One seeks a companion of its own accord,
The other is a match arranged by parents...
Lord Rama did not seek out Sita on his own;
Wasn't that a choice made by elders?
The love of poet Kamban's son ended in tragedy;
Wasn't that his own mistake?
If parents choose the bride, it never goes wrong!
If parents choose the bride, it never goes wrong!
Love is not a sin,
Nothing is a sin,
Everything helps life flourish.
Two hearts unite,
And it always ends in marriage.
The sacred sight of a wedding is truly divine,
The wedding ritual that joins hand in hand.
One seeks a companion of its own accord,
The other is a match arranged by parents...
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Beyond the translation

Overall song meaning

This song presents a debate comparing arranged marriages blessed by parents with love marriages chosen independently. The chorus emphasizes that the sacred union of marriage itself is divine regardless of how it comes about. One perspective argues that falling in love creates history and turns life into poetry, while the counter-argument cites cultural examples such as Rama and Sita to show that parental choices bring stability, whereas impulsive love can lead to tragedy like that of Kamban's son. Ultimately, the song reconciles both viewpoints by affirming that love and parental blessings both serve to unite two hearts in holy matrimony.

Writing craft

Poetic devices

Rhyme (Ethukai)

Pettravargal penn paarththu / Periyorkal naal kuriththu

Matching second consonants in adjacent lines such as 'Pettravargal' and 'Periyorkal'.

Alliteration (Monai)

Kadhal sorkka pantham / Kadavul thantha sontham

Repetition of initial 'Ka' sound across lines in 'Kadhal' and 'Kadavul'.

Rhetorical Question

Naal seivathaa illai naam seivathaa

Using questions to stimulate philosophical debate on whether fate or human choice drives marriage.

Allusion (Historical/Mythological)

Sri raman seedhaiyaithaan thedi kondathillai

Referencing Lord Rama and Sita as well as Ambakapathi (son of Tamil poet Kamban) to support arguments.

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Trivia

The song features a classic lyrical debate structure (Pattimandram style) written by Kavinar Kannadasan, contrasting arranged marriage with love marriage through mythological and historical references.

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