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Lyrics & meaning

Amma Appa Sandai

From Kattila Thottila · 1973

Lyricist
Vaali
Singers
Saibaba, M. R. Vijaya, Jayaraman
Music director
V. Kumar
Details
Kattila Thottila1973

Lyrics & meaning

Tanglish lyrics English translation
Female
Amma appa sandaiyilaeIn the fight between mother and father
Anaathai aanom pillaigalaeWe children became like orphans
Amma appa sandaiyilaeIn the fight between mother and father
Anaathai aanom pillaigalaeWe children became like orphans
Male
Summaayirukka mudiyallaeWe cannot just remain quiet and do nothing
Male :Saerththu vaikkavum vazhiyillaeMale: Yet there is no way to unite them either
Male :Summaayirukka mudiyallaeMale: We cannot just remain quiet and do nothing
Male :Saerththu vaikkavum vazhiyillaeMale: Yet there is no way to unite them either
Female :AmmaFemale: Mother
Male :AppaMale: Father
Female
Amma appa sandaiyilaeIn the fight between mother and father
Anaathai aanom pillaigalaeWe children became like orphans
Male :Summaayirukka mudiyallaeMale: We cannot just remain quiet and do nothing
Male :Saerththu vaikkavum vazhiyillaeMale: Yet there is no way to unite them either
Female :VazhiyillaeFemale: No way
Male :VazhiyillaeMale: No way
Female :VazhiyillaeFemale: No way
Chorus
Amma…pasi appa pasi pasiyo pasi….Hunger for mother, hunger for father, oh such a hunger...
Female
Pozhuthu vidinjaa coffee kodukkaTo make and give coffee when the day dawns
Amma vendaamaDon't we need a mother?
Naama azhuthu vadinjaa kaasu kodukkaWhen we cry and crumble, to give us money
Appa vendaamaDon't we need a father?
Male
Appa sutta idlythanilaeIn the idli cooked by father
Uppae irukaathuThere won't even be any salt
Appa sutta idlythanilaeIn the idli cooked by father
Uppae irukaathuThere won't even be any salt
Male
Ada amma namakku marunthu tharaattiOh, if mother doesn't give us medicine
Udambae irukkaathuOur very health won't survive
Chorus :Udambae irukkaathuChorus: Our health won't survive
Amma pasi appa pasi pasiyo pasi….Hunger for mother, hunger for father, oh such a hunger...
Female
Oorukkullae sandaiIf a fight breaks out in the town
Nadanthaa appa vakkeeluFather is the lawyer who handles it
Male :Udambukkullae sandaiMale: If a fight breaks out inside the body
Nadanthaa amma vakkeeluMother is the lawyer who cures it
Male
Amma appa sandai pidiththaaIf mother and father fight with each other
Yaarthaan vakkeeluWho then is the lawyer?
Female :Adhai theerththu vaikkavumFemale: To solve that dispute
Saerththu vaikkavum naamthaan vakkeeluAnd bring them together, we are the lawyers
Chorus :Naamthaan vakkeeluChorus: We are the lawyers
Amma pasi appa pasi pasiyo pasi….Hunger for mother, hunger for father, oh such a hunger...
Female
Mookku nuniyilae kobamAnger at the tip of the nose
Mulaichchu mookkae rendaachchuSprouted and split the nose into two
Naakku nuniyil vaarththaiWords at the tip of the tongue
Thadichchu pechae ninnaachchuThickened and brought conversation to a halt
Male
Bat-kkum panthu-kkum virothamIf enmity arises between the bat and the ball
Vanthaa panthayam ennaagumWhat will become of the match?
Vettikkum podavaikkumIf there is a contest between the dhoti and the saree
Potti irunthaa veedae kaadaagumThe home itself will turn into a forest
Female
Perukku munnae intial podaTo put an initial before our name
Appaa vendaamoDon't we need a father?
Perukku munnae intial podaTo put an initial before our name
Appaa vendaamoDon't we need a father?
Female
Namma peththava yaarunnuWhen others ask who gave birth to us
Maththava kettaa amma vendaamoDon't we need a mother?
Chorus :Solla amma vendaamoChorus: To tell them, don't we need a mother?
Amma pasi appa pasi pasiyo pasi….Hunger for mother, hunger for father, oh such a hunger...

Beyond the translation

Song interpretation

Amma Appa Sandaiyilae from the 1973 film Kattila Thottila captures the innocent yet profound plight of children caught in the middle of marital conflict. The lyrics vividly describe how parental disputes leave children feeling orphaned and helpless. The children express their need for both parents by highlighting their daily roles: the mother provides loving care, food, and medicine, while the father provides financial security, guidance, and identity. Through clever and humorous metaphors—such as comparing the mother and father to a saree and dhoti or a cricket match between a bat and ball—the song lightens a heavy subject. Realizing that their father resolves external conflicts and their mother heals internal ailments, the children decide that they themselves must act as lawyers to reconcile their parents and restore peace to their home.

Writing craft

Poetic devices

Synecdoche / Metaphor

Vettikkum podavaikkum / Potti irunthaa veedae kaadaagum

Using 'vetti' (dhoti) and 'podavai' (saree) to symbolically represent father and mother, emphasizing how a clash between their roles ruins the household.

Anaphora / Refrain

Amma…pasi appa pasi pasiyo pasi….

The repeated line 'Amma pasi appa pasi pasiyo pasi' serves as an emotional refrain linking the literal hunger for food to the emotional craving for parental togetherness.

Hyperbole & Imagery

Mookku nuniyilae kobam / Mulaichchu mookkae rendaachchu

Exaggerating anger on the tip of the nose splitting the nose into two, vividly expressing quick-tempered pride between spouses.

Analogy

Bat-kkum panthu-kkum virotham / Vanthaa panthayam ennaagum

Comparing parental discord to a game disrupted by conflict between the bat and the ball.

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Trivia

Kattila Thottila (1973) was directed by Malliyam Rajagopal and featured Gemini Ganesan and P. Bhanumathi in lead roles. The film's music was scored by V. Kumar with lyrics by Vaali, who was renowned for translating complex family dynamics into playful, child-centric song lyrics.

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