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Kudumbam Oru Kadhambam

From Kudumbam Oru Kadhambam · 1981

Lyricist
Kannadasan
Singer
M. S. Vishwanathan
Music director
M. S. Vishwanathan
Details
Kudumbam Oru Kadhambam1981

Lyrics & meaning

Tanglish lyrics English translation
Male
Kudumbam oru kadhambamA family is like a mixed bouquet of flowers
Pala vannam pala vannamOf many colors, many colors
Dhinamum madhi nayangumEvery day intellect/mind bends or struggles
Pala ennam pala ennamWith many thoughts, many thoughts
Male
Devan oru paadhai devi oru paadhaiThe god (husband) has one path, the goddess (wife) has another path
Kuzhanthai oru paadhaiThe child has another path
Kaalam seiyum perum leelaiA great game played by time
Male
Kudumbam oru kadhambamA family is like a mixed bouquet of flowers
Pala vannamOf many colors
Dhinamum madhi nayangumEvery day intellect bends or struggles
Pala ennamWith many thoughts
Male
Devan oru paadhai devi oru paadhaiThe god (husband) has one path, the goddess (wife) has another path
Kuzhanthai oru paadhaiThe child has another path
Kaalam seiyum perum leelaiA great game played by time
Male
Manaiyaal pan seithaalIf the wife works for wages
Manavaalan vaazhalaamThe husband can survive
Adhilae varumaanam aanaalum avamaanamIncome comes from it, but so does dishonor/humiliation
Veedugal thorum inguIn every house here
Idhuthaanae kelvi indruIs this not the question today?
Male
Vidinthaal oru ennamAs dawn breaks, a new thought arises
Ellorkkum thaniyullamEveryone has an independent mind
Male
Kudumbam oru kadhambamA family is like a mixed bouquet of flowers
Pala vannam pala vannamOf many colors, many colors
Dhinamum madhi nayangumEvery day intellect bends or struggles
Pala ennam pala ennamWith many thoughts, many thoughts
Male
Kanavan perithendruThinking the husband is superior
Mananthaargal mangaiyargalWomen used to get married
Uzhaippaal avalendruThinking she will contribute by labor
Mananthaargal naayagarkalHusbands got married
Male
PorulaathaaraththilaeIn terms of economics
Porulthaanaa thaaram indruIs a wife merely a financial asset today?
PorulaathaaraththilaeIn terms of economics
Porulthaanaa thaaram indruIs a wife merely a financial asset today?
Iruvar uzhaiththaalthaanOnly if both work
Innaalilae pasi theerumCan hunger be satisfied in these times
Male
Kudumbam oru kadhambamA family is like a mixed bouquet of flowers
Pala vannamOf many colors
Dhinamum madhi nayangumEvery day intellect bends or struggles
Pala ennamWith many thoughts
Male
Irandu kudhiraiyilaeRiding on two horses
Oru manithan povathennaWhy does a man travel like that?
Irandu ninaivugalilIn two different conflicting thoughts
Sila manithar vaazhvathennaWhy do some people live?
Male
KaalangalthorumAcross different eras
Avar sinthanaiyil maattramennaWhat is this constant change in their thinking?
Manithan ninaikkindranMan proposes / thinks
Iraivan athai maattrugindraanGod disposes / changes it
Male
Kudumbam oru kadhambamA family is like a mixed bouquet of flowers
Pala vannam pala vannamOf many colors, many colors
Dhinamum madhi nayangumEvery day intellect bends or struggles
Pala ennam pala ennamWith many thoughts, many thoughts
Male
Devan oru paadhai devi oru paadhaiThe god (husband) has one path, the goddess (wife) has another path
Kuzhanthai oru paadhaiThe child has another path
Kaalam seiyum perum leelaiA great game played by time
Male
Kudumbam oru kadhambamA family is like a mixed bouquet of flowers
Pala vannamOf many colors
Dhinamum madhi nayangumEvery day intellect bends or struggles
Pala ennamWith many thoughts

Beyond the translation

Song interpretation

'Kudumbam Oru Kadhambam' explores the complexities, contradictions, and evolving dynamics of modern family life. Written by Kannadasan and set to music by M. S. Viswanathan, the song metaphorically equates a family to a 'kadhambam'—a garland composed of varied flowers—symbolizing diverse personalities, opinions, and life paths residing under one roof. It reflects on societal shifts where economic realities force both husbands and wives to work, creating financial support yet triggering ego clashes, changing expectations, and social dilemmas. Ultimately, the song highlights how human intentions are reshaped by time, fate, and economic pressures, capturing the bitter-sweet essence of family relationships with profound philosophical depth.

Writing craft

Poetic devices

Metaphor

Kudumbam oru kadhambam

Comparing family to 'Kadhambam' (a mixed floral garland) to signify diverse personalities grouped together.

Repetition (Anaphora/Anadiplosis)

Pala vannam pala vannam

Repetition of 'Pala vannam' and 'Pala ennam' creates rhythm and reinforces multiplicity.

Metaphor

Irandu kudhiraiyilae Oru manithan povathenna

Riding two horses at once symbolizes leading a divided life or juggling conflicting thoughts and responsibilities.

Eltru / Monnai (Tamil Alliteration)

Manaiyaal pan seithaal Manavaalan vaazhalaam

Matching initial sounds in consecutive words such as 'Manaiyaal' / 'Manavaalan' and 'Porulaathaaraththilae' / 'Porulthaanaa'.

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Trivia

The song is the title track of the 1981 film 'Kudumbam Oru Kadhambam' directed by S. P. Muthuraman, based on Visu's popular stage play. Visu himself starred in the movie, which dealt with middle-class domestic issues, working wives, and generational differences.

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